The fact is that: It’s harder for us girls to initiate a hookup. We should wait for guys to do the first move or do their thing. But if you are a sort of liberated girl and if you want to hookup tonight, there are some sexy things that you need to do to attract a guy. And believe me, these things will make It sure that you will get laid tonight. We’ve got touching tips today for you. 1. A Hand In His Pocket Slipping your hand into one of his back pockets can broadcast that you feel extremely close to him. This soothing sign of affection is an especially great move to use if he’s feeling nervous or anxious. Tip: Introducing him to your friends for the first time? Let him know he’s doing fine by resting your hand there. Just be careful not to pull this move every time you go out–he’ll see that constant urge to touch as you being too needy. 2. A Lengthy Squeeze Clutch one butt cheek firmly for a few seconds and all he’ll be able to think about is ripping off your clothes. Men interpret this touch as the most sultry and sexual, because you’re holding on long and hard enough to really feel his body. It’s very animalistic, so it will make him want passionate, drawn-out sex. Tip: Try testing this move when you’re heading home from a date to let him know what’s in store. 3. A Light Rub Or Pat Quickly strokes his ass when you’re out with a group of friends or heading to your seats in the cinema. The reason? “He likes that flirty, light touch when he has other things going on,” says Macleod. “He’ll take it to mean that you’re thinking about him, but it’s not so sexual or intimate that he’ll feel like he has to devote all his attention to you.” And be assured that when you’re alone with him later, he will remember that little pat and want to get it on.

4. A Hard Spank A swift slap lets him know you want to be in control right then, and most guys find that totally thrilling. “Men sometimes feel like they have to be the aggressor when it comes to planning a date or sex,” says Borg. “But he’ll interpret a spank as a sign that you want to make the next move and call the shots.” If you’re heading out with him, do it as you step out the door, then tell him you are picking the restaurant, and everything else you do that night.

Tip: In bed, slap his butt and then move him into the position you’re craving–this will really nail home that you’re the one in charge.

 Dining on delectable French cuisine and riding a horse drawn carriage may sound like a wonderful date hookup idea to you, but chances are this won’t fare high in his fun meter.

However, this doesn’t mean you should give up on the romance.  Here are five fun and sexy activities that you’ll both get into when you hookup with him.

•  Get Your Gamble On

Ditch that sad image of poor fluorescent lighting and clunky slot machines. These days, a lot of casinos have already gone fancy, and you can find them all across the country. In addition to classier game rooms, some have first class restaurants run by top chefs. Dine on a delicious feast before heading out to the poker tables for some fun competition.

•  Take a Cooking Class Together

We are quite unsure we buy into the whole idea of the old adage that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but we do think heating up things in the kitchen can become seriously spicy. Visit Yelp and find the nearest place you can get cooking classes and sign up for something a bit exotic think Asian cuisine. You are guaranteed to have a good time and have even more fun devouring your hard work.

•  Go for a Cool Joyride

There are car rental companies that can let your drive cool cars like Bimmers and Audis really cheap. Set aside a day to go on a mini roadtrip and check out quaint towns with many shops on your way, or just take a scenic route through the country. He’s going to love being behind the wheel of a powerful engine, and you’ll dig the glamorous feeling for riding an automobile that’s so high-end.

•  Pamper Yourselves

Going for a couple’s massage at a posh spa is one girly activity he won’t mind at all; it’s pretty hot to get rubbed down together. There are a lot of places that offer discounts and promos, so check them out online to find one near your area.

•  Buy Him a Manly Drink

Wine tasting was the big thing then, but right now it’s whisky tasting. There is something roughly sexy and classy about taking sips of that seriously strong drink, plus you’ll get the chance to learn a lot of stuff. If you’re not quite sure where to find one, ask your local liquor seller and he’ll let you know where to go.

Almost all girls know the golden rules of being in an adult dating relationship, like telling your man how awesome he is in bed, and not how wonderful your ex was. However, there are other guidelines to follow that aren’t that obvious. Check out our ultimate adult dating cheat sheet.

•  Hanging Out with The Guys

What to do: Watch the game with his buddies. Spending the day with his boys on the couch, watching their favorite sports says you are cool and easygoing. He’ll definitely appreciate your effort in getting to know his pals. Do not: Cheer really loudly, chug down bottles of beer, tell colorless jokes. Let’s put it this way: It’s really tough to be sexually attracted to someone who reminds him of his buddies.

•  Giving Him Gifts

What to do: Get him tickets. Give him two tickets to go and see his favorite sports team or band and you’ll definitely score major points for being thoughtful and creative. Do not: Get him a sweater. He already receives a lot of clothes from his mom. You wouldn’t want to be associated with her, do you? Yeah, I didn’t think so.

•  Leaving Stuff at His Place

What to do: “Forget” your earrings. Intentionally leave behind a piece of jewelry, such as a pair of your earrings, and he’ll think of you the same way every time he sees them.

Do not: Leave a toothbrush in his bathroom sink. Any unsolicited toothbrush or piece of toiletry will give him the impression you’re too eager to move in fast which may freak him out.

•  Sending Him Text Messages

What to do: Send, “Last night was amazing. Want to do a repeat tonight?” Keep your texts short and appealing to make sure he’s completely intrigued. Do not: Send a message that is more than a couple of sentences long. For guys, texting is a way of quick communication, so sending him a novel is just like a droning phone conversation.

•  Publicly Displaying Your Affection

What to do: Give a peck on the cheek. He’ll feel smug in front of his buddies if you give him a subtle sexy gesture, like giving him a kiss on the check or holding on to his arm while taking a stroll.

Do not: Be all over him.

Guys want to look tough in public, so he”ll feel uncomfortable if you sit on his lap or make out with him.

You may have let your breasts hang all out when you tuck yourself in at night, but you’re certainly missing out if that’s the only time. Enjoying your boobs helps you feel confident about your own body because you totally appreciate who you are and what you have.

What’s more, it completely boosts your confidence in bed when you hook up with guys, making you orgasm more frequently. Who can argue with that logic? And to help you maximize those gorgeous assets, we give you a wonderful short list of great ideas.

•  Go braless and wear a silk or combed cotton shirt. The fabric is going to feel nice brushing against your skin all day.

•  When you’re lounging with your man on the couch, watching a DVD movie or reading, gently guide his hand under your bra and have him lightly stroke your boobs with his fingertips.

•  For a stimulating sensation the next time you hook up with guys under the sheets, have them try this technique with his hands: Make a V sign with his index and middle fingers, and gently have him do a scissor cutting motion around your nipples.

•  Feeling too hot at the beach? Take an ice cube from your drink and glide it all over your cleavage.

•  This handy trick can help your breasts look sexier: Under an overhead light, stand in front of a mirror and apply bronzer over the dark areas of your breasts. Deeper shadows give a fuller impression of your boobage.

•  Treat your girls to a sensual massage. Apply lotion on both, and employ a circular motion with medium pressure. Rub the base of your breasts up along the outer area, stopping just below your armpits. Place your hand on your breastbone, and then work your way across your chest towards the sides of your body.

•  While giving you a deep kiss, have him trace a figure eight going around both nipples.

•  Apply edible lotion to your twins, like Berry Passion by Victoria’s Secret, and give your man a delectable surprise the next time his lips are in the immediate vicinity.

•  Challenge him to unhook your bra without using his hands.

•  Cook pasta topless, and then add a little sauce to your nipple, making sure it’s not too hot, and then ask him if it tastes just right.

•  Use those bouncing orbs to give your man a sexy back rub. Make sure you go crazy with the massage oil.

•  Relax completely and just let yourself loose. Ditch your top at the gym or sauna, and just close your eyes.

 The first thing we consider in finding a partner is usually their physical appearance. In doing so, we should ask ourselves: What role do looks play in an adult dating relationship? We asked one adult dating expert to analyze what it means to date up (you think he is hotter than you), or date down (you think you are hotter than him), and what effects it can bring upon your outlook on love.

•  Dating Up

Your man is probably Ryan Reynolds’ Doppelganger, which makes sweating over his hotness status very common. A lot of us, if not all, play the rating game in our heads. It helps us feel more secure and less fearful of losing someone we love. Here are a few things you need to know:

The Pro: If your man is a total hottie, pat yourself on the back. And while you’re busy adoring his hotness, keep in mind that you landed him, chiseled body and all. Actually, adult dating good looking people is a plus. It makes us work harder in looking our best, and it constantly keeps us interested in working things up in the bedroom.  So what if he’s hotter than you? Yeah, big deal. He picked you, and it’s important to trust his decision.

The Con: When your man’s handsome physical attributes starts to hurt your self-esteem and makes you lose confidence in your own positive characteristics, you risk turning into a jealous girlfriend who starts fights every time another girl throws a glance in his direction, or vice versa. What now? If you feel like you’ll never be able to keep up, then it’s time to move on.

•  Dating Down

If you think you deserve to be a Victoria’s Secret Angel, and are quite disappointed your man is not an Adam Levine look alike, you fall into this category. Read on for the plus and minus of trumping your guy in the looks department.

The Pro: Just because your temperature is higher than his on the hotness scale, it doesn’t mean he’s not the right one for you. You see, there’s good looking, and then there’s attractive. A man can be not that good looking, but still incredibly hot for you. So if you are connecting well in and out of the bedroom, don’t lose faith. And deep emotional connection should help eliminate doubts you have for his appearance. It’s crucial to have an open mind, and worry not of what other people think.

The Con: If you feel you are just settling and his lack of attractiveness is being an obstacle for a lasting connection between you two, then it’s time to move on. If you have to convince yourself that you’re dating the right person, then he is always the wrong person. Constantly thinking he’s not too hot for you can put a strain in the relationship, which will hinder your progress to move forward.

If we try to think about the human race’s fatal flaws, we can probably consider our attraction to things we cannot have as one of them. And as men in particular, we tend to give in to our own illicit desires. We all want to be moral and good, but why do we have more fun when we sin? As men, we can totally relate to the primeval instincts we feel to propagate our species.

However, some guys, like me, are staunch supporters of monogamy for one reason alone: We believe in the power of a promise, and this kind of commitment deserves much respect in any aspect of life, but no more so than in a relationship.

To be a single free agent and go adult dating with available single women is one thing, as long as your intentions are clear and you go about your business without a trace of guilt.

And then there’s the married woman: the perfect manifestation of the sweet forbidden fruit; so unattainable, yet so alluring to a lot of men. Some guys cannot help but be drawn to a woman with a ring on her finger, regardless if she is a good friend’s wife, a casual acquaintance or a colleague.

For some, the magnetic allure of a married woman in a committed relationship is hard to resist. It is a kind of perverted sense of accomplishment and personal victory to get to sleep with her, make her feel attracted to you, and maybe even fall in love with you. But you can be rest assured, the ego boost we get from adult dating a married woman is not worth it. Types of Married Women:

•  The Prowler – The profile of this type of married woman describes her as stuck in a marriage of convenience. She probably did it for the money, social status or overall security in life, and now wants to get her freak on with any guy who throws his attention to her.

•  The Thrill-Seeker – Not as proactive as The Prowler, but this type of married woman has the same desire for mischief. This bored housewife or corporate slave under stress is most likely sick of her marriage, and is in dire need of an outlet to vent all her frustrations. But instead of picking up a new hobby or going on a long vacation, she has a boy toy in mind.

•  The Young Wife – She is the innocent and naïve ingénue, oblivious of your real intentions in her. She tied the knot before having the chance to experience life.  The Young Wife loves and is devoted to her husband, and is honest as can be, but wonders what else is out there now that the honeymoon stage of their marriage has passed.

•  The Lonely Neglected Wife – A lot of guys have probably encountered this type of married woman, which can come off as a headcase in most cases. Her marriage has turned sour and her husband no longer has the interest to invest in their relationship.

It’s no longer a secret that online dating can give you the easiest and fastest way for single men to hookup with women. According to statistics, there is an estimated 8 million women that visit online dating sites every month. That’s an average of a whopping 267,000 women each day!

However, there is also a huge number of guys in your area posting their personal ads on these online dating sites, so how can you compete and make your profile stand out from the rest and eventually get those dates? It’s pretty simple: You employ the same method advertisers use in print media ads to sell their products or services.

If you think about it, an online personal ad is exactly what it is an ad about yourself. So it just makes perfect sense if you take advantage of the same methods used by advertisers. One of their most effective methods when writing a personal ad is the 3-U method: Uniqueness; Ultra-Specificity; and Urgency. And this method is used to enhance the three elements of your personal ad, namely the headline, the profile and the close.

•  The Headline (Unique)

Remember, the headline is the most essential element of your personal ad because it’s your first written contact with a potential hookup, so make it count. And the best approach to do this is to make it inviting and intriguing, one that stimulates her thoughts or answer a question.

One headline that has had huge success in with members is, “Have you ever been to____?” Just fill in the blank with a location of your choice. This question will instantly make her curious and excited. She will surely click on your ad to find out. And this leads to…

•  The Personal Profile (Ultra-Specificity)

You’ve probably heard about the idiom “the devil is in the detail,” and the detail will definitely help you hookup with women.

What a lot of these women want, and fantasize about, is to go on an adventure with their Prince Charming. And in creating your profile, try to make them imagine you’ll be taking them on a fantastic ride when they decide to hookup with you. Any guy can say “I like to do anything fun,” but stand above them and tease her senses with details. This will leave a door open for a very likely date, which leads to…

•  The Close (Make It Urgent)

After getting her all excited with the details, seal the deal with an urgent close. And to do this, your objective is to make her respond immediately to your personal ad. Otherwise, she might forget about you and move on to another attractive profile. One way to effectively do this is by stating your future plans (hitting Miami in a few days). In doing this, you will fill her mind with excitement; and because it is time sensitive, she’ll be more inclined to respond faster.

This particular girl has been running through your mind for quite a while now. She has this great personality and hot body that make you lose focus, making her your ideal woman. But the problem is her ex and your best buddy is the same person. So what the hell are you supposed to do? Let’s consider a few factors before you even start thinking of having an adult dating relationship with her.

There are some guys that form a strong bond based on their mutual trust and respect for each other. If this is the type of relationship that you have with your best pal, it would be prudent to lay off his ex and look for another woman to have an adult dating relationship with. If your relationship began when you were kids and has stood the test of time, would you even dare risk it over a woman?

Regardless of how perfect you think she is, it’s not reason enough to potentially destroy what you have with your best buddy. The sex alone is not worth it, nor is the emotional investment. A best buddy is a priceless commodity that can endure a lifetime, considering you won’t have sex with a woman he once had feelings for.

And then there is another type of best friend guys have, of the fun but sick and corrupt kind. He is the kind that would consider teaming up for a threesome or compare notes of sexual conquests with. It has a very slim chance of being the same best buddy as stated above, because this same best buddy would be open to the idea of you having an adult dating relationship with his ex.

The fact is some men have this wolfpack mentality with regards to women. We want our pack to score as much as possible, and celebrate in the endorphine-induced rush we experience every time we date and have sex with the same woman. This often misunderstood phenomenon is equated to passing on good fortune to your best friend. When you get some, you want others in the pack to get some as well.

However, some men do not like to share. And when genuine feelings are involved, the situation could be suddenly complicated.

To find out about the nature of his relationship with his ex, you must be a good judge of character. It is often accurate of how men are stereotyped as defective lines of communication, making even our best buddy oblivious of how we feel about his ex. If you think this is the case, it’s time to play detective and dig for information. Did their relationship have a tragic ending? Who broke up with whom? Did he genuinely love her, or was she just a mild interest he just had to gratify?

What is crucial before you make your move is to consider all that is at stake, communicate and check your motive before you begin

 Stepping into the world of online adult dating is something a huge number of single guys and girls do everyday. But despite some getting confused on how to approach women both online and the real world, a lot of guys still give online adult dating a much deserved shot.

The Personal Profile

Regardless of the number of online profiles you’ve gone through or the responses you’ve sent out, it’s not the same until you’ve actually created one for yourself. And when you’ve already made one without getting any hits, the problem lies in thinking that you already know how to write one, but really don’t.

•  Be Creative and Unique

Sounding like a walking cliche can be as boring as it gets. And since almost everyone is looking for love at every corner of the globe, try to stand out among the rest. Put on your thinking cap and try to be creative and unique in writing details about yourself that you want to put out there. Instead of writing, “Looking for a potential partner to spend time with (ho-hum),” go for, “Looking for a partner in crime to go skinny-dipping and gatecrash big parties with.”

•  Be Honest; Avoid BS

It is crucial to be straightforward in your profile to help women imagine what kind of person you are. And an honest approach brings less disappointments, therefore, upping your chances of finding that potential match you are looking for.

•  Don’t Be a Show Off

As much as it is important to be honest, there is no reason to mention that you own a yacht, a house in a posh neighborhood and a fleet of expensive supercars in your online adult dating profile. Nobody likes an arrogant showoff; it just increases your chances of instantly turning off women.

•  Talk About Age

It may be irrelevant for some, but age can still be a deal-breaker for many. Although you can state a specific range and say that you’re within a certain age bracket, you’re better being more accurate. If you’re looking for women not older than her 20s, then a woman even in her early 40s just won’t cut it.

•  Be Specific with Details

Saying you like “Friday evenings at home relaxing in the couch with a good movie and a bottle of Merlot” is so cliche. Your main focus is to stand out from the rest, so you have to think of something to get you noticed.

•  State Your Current Status

If you’re currently single, you have to say so; and if you’re going through a divorce, it should also be worth mentioning. The idea is to be truthful on facts about you, and the current status of your love life is a key component of this.