Newsstands and art houses have been buzzing about adult sex addiction since earlier this year. Newsweek even ran a cover story late last year, claiming that America was already in the middle of a full-on epidemic, and noting the increasing number of people being treated for “hypersexual disorder.”
We talked to a couple of New York residents aboutNew York adult sex experience, as well as what they have to say about the idea of adult sex addiction. Read on for their stories, presented with their numbers, you know, the figure representing the “number people you’ve slept with,” the one you’re supposed to keep a record of but never really admit to.
Her Number: 17
New York is a city filled with beautiful people. How do you avoid being caught up in the moment and not have sex with them?
A friend and I picked up an indie film director who had a hot release this year. It happened at his screening after-party in Brooklyn. We managed to get us three kicked out for making out at the bar. So we went back to my place in Bushwick and had our way with him. It was kind of weird, but fun. I woke up the next day on my living room floor with a garbage bag as a pillow. Classy.
There exists an absolute double standard when it comes to the number of partners guys can have versus girls. I do think addiction to porn exists. I know someone who became so obsesses with porn that he couldn’t have sexual relations or chemistry with other people. So sex addiction probably isn’t far from that.
Her Number: “I lost count.”
I once did it with a guy I met on the subway, in the middle of the street at the Upper East Side under a scaffolding. I’m quite sure we would’ve been arrested for that. I once also had a threesome in a nightclub restroom.
Yes, sex addiction exists, but society dictates that hooking up is a “problem” that leads to guilt or shame. I think it’s much easier to get away with being skanky in New York City because your circles don’t need to know what you’ve been up to. If I lived in a small town upstate, I’ll probably the town whore.
As far as numbers go, I stopped counting back in 2007. I absolutely have no idea how many people I’ve had sex with, and I also don’t know how much I weigh, because numbers just give you stress. I say live free, die happy.
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