There are a lot of ways to attract a mate and hookup for sex. The first thing to do is not to deny it and be straight to your goal. Come on! Don’t tell me that you are not looking for that. You go out at night and go to a club or bar, and that is what you are looking for. Be true.
You don’t need to spray yourself down with pheromones, you don’t need drugs, you just need some wit, a keen sense of perception, and to be ready to handle rejection. If you want to score, you need to play the numbers, think of it like the lottery, how many tickets do people play before they win? You need to be ready to handle yourself, and that means confidence. One way to build confidence is to get laid, and the more you get laid, the more confident you will be. Just be sure and be safe, always use your head.
clubs singles or restaurant hoping to pick up chicks, you need to be comfortable. You need to look good, but don’t wear something that is way out of your element. The way you look is not as important as the way you feel, and the guy wearing a plaid jacket with dusty work boots on is picking up chicks because he is confident. When you approach a woman that you want to get with, you need to study her a bit first. Look at her, don’t stare at her tits or ass, but look at what she is wearing, notice the accessories, bracelets, necklaces, earrings. Take a look at her hair, and if you are close enough, see if you can pick out any distinct scents in her perfume. You don’t have to be creepy, just be yourself.
Full of confidence, and with a renewed sense of empowerment, you make your move. Base your introductory line on something she is wearing, her earrings or bracelets. What a woman wears, she puts a lot of care into choosing, so if you notice it she will immediately know you are not some superficial asshole.