You get an elegant vibe at these monthly Manhattan, New York orgies, which is more cocktail lounge than dance party. It doesn’t involve any type of BDSM or kink, just good ol’ hot group sex. These adult sex parties are happen in private places like lofts, suites, and townhouses. And before things get underway, they have a exclusively female social gathering called Girls Uncorked, followed by an orientation primer on the lifestyle called Swing School. Single ladies are preferred and get extra attention from other couples here sorry guys, no single men allowed. While the establishment claims that celebs and models attend their New York adult dating sex shindigs, a diminished price makes the parties accessible to attractive students as well.
A Manhattan loft that is moodily lit, with chefs preparing trays of hors d’oeuvres, is not exactly the setting one would expect at a swingers party, but the people here would only use that term ironically. Chemistry is at the forefront of the new crop of young and hip adult sex parties in New York. It’s their Biochemistry Night, which is a fluid, bisexual event.
As couples in their twenties and in their early forties cover the two-floor loft space, everyone is buzzing in anticipation, sipping their cocktail drinks from straws. A house DJ builds anticipation by playing soulful music as partygoers gently bump into one another.
The upstairs floor is covered in futons, and a slender, exotically dressed woman advertises tantric messages in one corner of the room. Everybody just gets down to business as soon as one person initiates something.
Downstairs, some people in different states of undress dance to the DJ’s music. Later, a series of burlesque acts draws a crowd and applause.
These affairs are among the youngest, kinkiest and most gay-friendly in New York. Their most recent one included a human piata (yes, it’s what you think it is), unicorn activities, a pee play section, and a Dexter scene wherein participants were drenched in fake blood. While the huge majority of attendees are in their twenties, one of the few older partygoers, a guy in his sixties, observed that the New York adult dating party scene here is a throwback to the anything goes 70s. It’s all about dreaming up any kink you want to do and giving it a shot. However, the young ones at this party take consent very seriously; they’ll kick you out if you don’t ask before you do any touching.