Get In the Mood
Phone sex can cover a number of different aspects of an adult sex relationship from improving sexual chemistry, and nurturing a long distance relationship, to opening doors in discovering your partner’s wildest adult sex fantasies. But before you pick up your phone and make that lustful call, you have to be sure that you are ready. Nothing kills the mood more than having the absence of it, so what you can do is watch a little porn and get comfortable. A good way to make sure the lady on the receiving end of the call will also be in the mood is to start with a little sexting.
In general, sexting with words works better for women than when using photos. The reason is our female counterparts can be more mentally stimulated than us men, so telling her what you’re doing will get her going faster than photos of a shirtless Tom Brady. Paying her compliments can always be a great opener, so remind her about that wonderful time you last had hot adult sex. If you haven’t reached that stage yet, tell her how smokin’ you imagine her in sexy lingerie. Remember, your objective is to arouse her, so treat your sexting as foreplay and keep them playfully flirtatious.
Now that you’re up (no pun intended) and ready to go live on the telecom airwaves, you can begin the conversation by whispering. Her ears are the only erogenous zone you have a direct effect on when having phone sex, so whispering is your best tool for stimulating that sensation. However, you will need a wide range of vocabulary to keep her in heat. Try using the following lines to heat things up: ‘I really want to be with you right now,’ ‘I could do with you here,’ or ‘I can’t wait to be with you again so we can do this.’
The key to having great phone sex is to be very descriptive as you can. The more visually imaginative your statements are, the more excited you will both be, so your goal is to create a very detailed mental image. This is where your command of the English language pays off. Make us of adjectives in phrases like ‘warm breath,’ ‘soft lips,’ ‘straddle,’ and ‘sticky.’
Know Your Partner
It is also important to know your partner’s sexual preference and what makes her tick. This can help you determine which particular direction you want to steer the conversation. If she likes it dirty, then by all means use vulgar terms. But if she wants it sensual, focus on parts of her body you want to work on in a sexy way. Remember, different strokes for different folks.